To obtain a good grasp of “self-preservation,” the sincerity of self accountability and self responsibility are two essential factors required to have a somewhat healthy relationship with ourselves. Within the growth cycle of our youth ages where we began to overlook the severe facts that were being taught and accepted them as being pressured into doing the right things in the correct way the, “cleaning up of our rooms,” the “taking out the trash,” the “cutting yards,” the “washing of cars or trucks,” and even the “helping the elderly and or neighbors” without seeking some kind of remuneration for our services only because our consciousness veered into a state of curiosity. That’s exactly when our choices become determinations, and the determining factors of what?
As we venture into the “what abouts” the storms of life raged and hit us with miraculous ideas and upon these ideas came acquaintances in which come with their ideology that’s intriguing as well that leads us into becoming associates. Within the terrible terrains that all existence is playing on there are those that just can’t or won’t recall the teachings of “play nice” and “fair” only because whatever is nice and fair to one just might not be considered nice and fair to the next individual. Two individuals might become associates by way of riding on the bus, but the both of them are from different sides of the tracks. Neither here nor there of which side of the tracks is better because on both sides there is good and bad and in all actuality when it comes down to it we all are the same, but just do things differently. One might say they want “more” and the other might say that they want “mo.” Focusing on the differences and not the similarities is what keeps us all in bondage and that’s what allowed the attraction of and for those two that are associates.
As the appeal grew deeper and stronger through various concepts of life, for instance one goes away to better his/her education and they remain in contact and supportive by any and all means possible, and then the other falls south onto some hard times and end up being confined for some unapparent reason. The one that went away to further their education still remains in contact and supportive by all means in which that’s true actions of serious friendship. The factors of self accountability and self responsibility might have been scarred or even damaged at a time on both individual’s account whereas the one that went off to school just might’ve had some harsh times that a simple phone call to assure them that things would and could work itself out. And vise versa a hug, phone call, letter or visit and even some money on both aspects helps a person realize that someone really cares. Once an individual actually realizes that another person truly cares then the clicking and clinging begins and instead of just justifying and or rationalizing circumstances and situations the acceptance of rectifying mistakes together become the ideal conception. Each individual’s behavior must be good. As our intentions are those that are highly observed as we live our lifestyle in which we should want better yet desire our conduct and character to match. Matching energy is plainly, “you give good, you receive good” or “you give bad, you receive bad.”